Are You Searching For Happiness?

Posted by : foongpc | Friday, November 20, 2009 | Published in

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Are you happy? Or are you still searching for happiness?

What makes you happy really?

A lot of people tell me that they will be happy when they earn their first million.

Some tell me they will be happy once they they lose weight and achieve that perfect figure!

Others tell me they will be happy once they are married and have children.

Yet others tell me they will only be happy when they are successful and famous!



I guess most people will only be happy when they reach their goals in life. So in other words, we are all always striving to reach that state of being happy.

Have you ever wondered why we work so hard? Well, for the majority of us, we work hard for the money.

But why do we need to have money? Besides being able to buy food, pay our house loans and other necessities in life, we can buy things we like. And why would we want those things so much? Probably because they help us accomplish certain things in life or we want to look cool.

But why do we want to accomplish those things? Why do we want to look cool? Keep questioning yourself and you'll find that the real reason is because that would make you happy. You see, it all boils down to this craving for that state of happiness.



Now don't get me wrong. There is nothing wrong in pursuing our dreams and our goals.

But if it is really happiness that you are after, why go through all the troubles? Since happiness is just a state of your conscious mind, don't you think you can simply 'choose' to be happy?

As ridiculous as this may sound to you, don't you think that you can just sit back, do nothing and be happy?

Why go through all the hard work to reach your destination when you can actually arrive at your destination now?

Believe me, there are people who have already achieved this - they are the reclusive yogis, who choose to do nothing and be happy.

I guess it's not easy for us to do that because all our lives, we have been conditioned to work hard in order to achieve our dreams. And then and only then, would we be satisfied and be happy.

But here's the problem. That happiness will not last very long. For very soon, we will be craving for more, for that next step because as humans, we always want to progress.


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And so, people will continue to strive for that elusive happiness all their lives, wondering why do they feel so empty after having achieved so many things in life. You see, searching for happiness outside of you is an illusion. Because happiness is found within.

You already have happiness inside you. Be happy NOW. No matter what circumstances in your life right now, you can choose to be happy. IT'S YOUR CHOICE.

Why not be happy even as you continue to strive for your goals and dreams? You don't need to be happy only AFTER you have achieved them. As they say, success is a journey not a destination.

If there is a really good time to be happy, the time is NOW.

You can choose to be happy. Right this minute.

Have a happy weekend, everyone! : )

FIRST COMMENTER

(119) Comments

  1. ladyviral said...

    Must be first! Ahaks!

    November 20, 2009 at 10:32 AM
  2. ladyviral said...

    YAY! Finally FIRST in foong's blog! Wooohoo!

    November 20, 2009 at 10:34 AM
  3. ladyviral said...

    We can be happy anytime we want... it doesn't have to mean that we need to reach our goal first then we can be happy.

    Even the simplest thing can mean we are happy. Like getting a smile, getting a surprise call from a friend that have lost touch for some time, having your favorite meal etc...

    We don't need to wait until we have achieve our goal like earn the first million to be happy. Happiness comes from within :).

    November 20, 2009 at 10:38 AM
  4. ladyviral said...

    See like now... I am happy! Finally FC in foogn's blog! Hahahah!

    Happy spamming away now too! Not everyday I get to be first here and it shows my first few comments!

    November 20, 2009 at 10:39 AM
  5. ladyviral said...

    Though some happiness don't last all long... but what makes us think that earning the first million, losing weight, etc... will mean the happiness will last right? :P

    You will be happy if you are happy regardless what it takes to be happy :).

    (and here I am blabbing away bleh~)

    November 20, 2009 at 10:41 AM
  6. bluedreamer27 said...

    wow ladyviral is extremely fast hahaha

    November 20, 2009 at 10:56 AM
  7. bluedreamer27 said...

    i definitely agree with this... well i guess we are all looking for happiness...the true happiness...
    Money is just an instrument and what can you buy from your money are those material things only... You might be satisfied physically and mentally but not spiritually. coz for me, happiness is always associated with God... Love him more than anything else and you'll see what happiness really is^^
    have a great day Foong

    November 20, 2009 at 11:00 AM
  8. khengsiong said...

    Hehe... it's easier said than done.

    I am a Buddhist. I already know how to be happy - live in here-and-now; no remorse over the past; no longing for future... But my mind doesn't listen to me.

    We do need to do something - that's to train our mind. That's exactly what the reclusive yogis do...

    November 20, 2009 at 11:06 AM
  9. manglish said...

    good blog!!! i agree with you..we can choose to be happy or not....but dont listen to yogis...they usually died alone and penniless hahahhahha

    November 20, 2009 at 11:13 AM
  10. Che-Cheh said...

    You sounded like Eckhart Tolle. :P

    Yes I'm trying to live in the NOW. But sometimes difficult. Mind can stray to the past and future.

    November 20, 2009 at 11:30 AM
  11. Nick Phillips said...

    As long as people crave for things, they will never truly be happy.

    As for me, it's Friday and I'm always happy on Friday! LOL!

    Happy weekend pal!

    November 20, 2009 at 11:30 AM
  12. iamthewitch said...

    Ooh I'm happy already after reading this post. :) I'm also happy my husband gave me a lovely surprise yesterday! Happy :)

    November 20, 2009 at 11:38 AM
  13. iamthewitch said...

    Oh I'm also happy because today is FRIDAY!! Woohoo! Long lunch plus weekend ahead. What's not to be happy about? :P

    November 20, 2009 at 11:39 AM
  14. Merryn said...

    foong, ur blog ah! so unbelievable lah.. just a few minutes after publishing a post.. millions of comments are in already!!!

    November 20, 2009 at 11:41 AM
  15. Merryn said...

    and I'm happy just by looking at that huge smiley in this post today. happy weekend foong! :)

    November 20, 2009 at 11:43 AM
  16. xin said...

    very inspirational :)

    i know the theory of being happy - just that it is easier to be said than done.

    i learnt one thing though - life is easier for the easy going and non-perfectionist :D

    November 20, 2009 at 11:58 AM
  17. CheaHS@n said...

    "Money is not everything. But everything needs money". To go for a leak you need to pay 30sen in shopping complex and some charges RM2, behind trees its FOC. It's your choice. Live in moderation by following the middle path. Have a great weekend foongpc.

    November 20, 2009 at 12:00 PM
  18. [SK] said...

    yes, i agree with that saying, our ultimate goal in life is to achieve happiness..

    November 20, 2009 at 12:41 PM
  19. [SK] said...

    and all those health, wealth, beauty, success, glory etc etc are just substances, at that time then called goals, to help you achieve happiness..

    November 20, 2009 at 12:42 PM
  20. [SK] said...

    we will have different type of goals in different stages, and that is also spelling how differently we will feel happy about them..

    November 20, 2009 at 12:42 PM
  21. [SK] said...

    but what really is the ultimate happiness?? perhaps we might not know yet..

    November 20, 2009 at 12:43 PM
  22. [SK] said...

    you have a happy weekend too dude!! :)

    November 20, 2009 at 12:43 PM
  23. Mariuca said...

    Good morning Foong, I saw ur tweet but too late la huhuhu!

    November 20, 2009 at 1:32 PM
  24. Mariuca said...

    Cause just woke up mah!

    November 20, 2009 at 1:32 PM
  25. Mariuca said...

    Let's see... so many thing will make me happy...

    November 20, 2009 at 1:33 PM
  26. Mariuca said...

    Good health....

    November 20, 2009 at 1:33 PM
  27. Mariuca said...

    1 million USD!

    November 20, 2009 at 1:33 PM
  28. Mariuca said...

    And right now I would love a vakasi and a new house!

    November 20, 2009 at 1:34 PM
  29. Mariuca said...

    How? Asking too much is it? LOL!

    November 20, 2009 at 1:34 PM
  30. Mariuca said...

    Btw, abt that CL thingy....sometimes like dat one Foong... I oso have to refresh at certain blogs sometimes before can see CL....

    November 20, 2009 at 1:35 PM
  31. Mariuca said...

    Dunno why oso...silly CL lol!

    November 20, 2009 at 1:35 PM
  32. Mariuca said...

    Anyway happy weekend to you, it's Fri my fave day! :)

    November 20, 2009 at 1:35 PM
  33. Mariuca said...

    Wah ladyviral FC here oso!! Hi Ladyviral!!

    November 20, 2009 at 1:35 PM
  34. Mei Teng said...

    I am happy even though I am going thru ups and downs right now :)

    Happy weekend!

    November 20, 2009 at 2:21 PM
  35. ladyviral said...

    Hahaha! hi Mariuca!

    Well, guess it has been my lucky days for being FC. haha! ;)

    November 20, 2009 at 2:21 PM
  36. kitkat said...

    yup..so true..happiness takes time ...

    November 20, 2009 at 2:39 PM
  37. foongpc said...

    ladyviral, Congratulations!!! Finally!!! You are FC here! Ooh, I'm so excited! : )

    November 20, 2009 at 2:50 PM
  38. foongpc said...

    ladyviral, yes we can be happy over the simplest things! Well, I am happy that you are happy! And I'm happy you are finally FC here. Woo hoo! : )

    November 20, 2009 at 2:53 PM
  39. foongpc said...

    bluedreamer27, yeah you are 2nd! Not too bad! Haha!

    Good to know you are happy and loving God. Have a great day, blue! : )

    November 20, 2009 at 2:54 PM
  40. ladyviral said...

    Hahaha foong! Happy for me?! Oh yes I am definitely excited too! Finally, FC here! I wonder if I will get it again next time hahaha!

    Omg you put my picture up! Gasps!

    Why not my beautiful red new avatar? >.<

    November 20, 2009 at 2:55 PM
  41. foongpc said...

    khengsiong, yeah, train your mind and you shall be enlightened : )

    November 20, 2009 at 2:55 PM
  42. foongpc said...

    manglish, that's right it's our own choice to be happy or otherwise! Not sure about yogis, but I sure don't need to be one to be happy! : )

    November 20, 2009 at 2:56 PM
  43. foongpc said...

    che-cheh, me sounded like Eckhart Tolle? Wow! I'll take that as a compliment! Haha! Btw, I love to read Tolle's books. Very inspiring.

    Yeah, the mind is our best friend as well as our biggest enemy. The person who can control his mind controls the world. Well, I guess everytime our mind stray to the past or future, we just have to cancel the thoughts and bring ourselves back to the present. The Now all that matters : )

    November 20, 2009 at 2:59 PM
  44. foongpc said...

    nick phillips, haha! I guess most people are happy on Fridays! : )

    November 20, 2009 at 3:01 PM
  45. foongpc said...

    iamthewitch, wow! What surprise did Saucer gave you? Please tell me, please tell me! : )

    November 20, 2009 at 3:02 PM
  46. foongpc said...

    merryn, haha! Maybe some people stalking lah! Haha! Glad you like the big Smiley! Happy weekend to you too! : )

    November 20, 2009 at 3:03 PM
  47. foongpc said...

    xin, yes life is easier and definitely happier for the easy going person and the non perfectionist! Well, just remind yourself to be happy everyday and it becomes easier as time passes! Try it! : )

    November 20, 2009 at 3:05 PM
  48. foongpc said...

    cheahs@n, I agree money is not everything but then not everything needs money! The air is free! The chirping of birds are free! The beautiful sunshine and the glorious rain is free! Enjoy them and be grateful and be happy!! Have a great weekend to you too : )

    November 20, 2009 at 3:07 PM
  49. foongpc said...

    SK, the ultimate happiness is probably when we are of the highest awareness of who we really are.

    Have a great weekend yes? : )

    November 20, 2009 at 3:09 PM
  50. foongpc said...

    mariuca, ooh, just woke up? Oh no missed my tweet! Well never mind, next time yes? : )

    1 million USD makes you happy? New house? haha! I know you've been talking about that! No, no, you are not asking too much! Ask as much as you want, but just be happy when you are asking! Haha!

    Thanks for confirming about the cL. OK, at least I know it's nothing wrong at my side. Good!

    Yeah it's Friday! Everybody's fav day! Hehe

    November 20, 2009 at 3:17 PM
  51. foongpc said...

    mei teng, that's the right attitude! Yes! Glad you are happy no matter what! : )

    November 20, 2009 at 3:18 PM
  52. foongpc said...

    kitkat, be happy always yes? : )

    November 20, 2009 at 3:19 PM
  53. kyh said...

    I can be pleased quite easily. For me, there's no time to waste on all those worries! So why cry over 'em? :)

    ** I just realise that u're a guy! HAHA. Although I'm new to ur blog, I've seen you leaving comments on other blogs and I always thought that you're a female! 'Scuse me, ahem. Must be that cute panda avatar of yours for misleading me into this silly assumption! :P

    And oh, in case u've made the same assumption on me, I'm a guy. :)

    November 20, 2009 at 3:19 PM
  54. kyh said...

    And oh ya, I'm a MC fan too!!! Though not as *crazy* as you r! :)

    November 20, 2009 at 3:21 PM
  55. foongpc said...

    ladyviral, of course I'm happy for you! I know you've waited a long time for this! Haha!

    Are you on Twitter? Come follow me on Twitter cos I usually announce my next upcoming post on Twitter. Hehe

    About your photo, since you already revealed your face to the world, what's wrong with putting your face here? Haha! But if you don't like, I will use your avatar next time. Actually, I like to use different pictures every time, not so boring mah! Haha!

    November 20, 2009 at 3:24 PM
  56. foongpc said...

    kyh, what?! You are a guy? Haha! Yeah, a lot of people think I'm a gal. But that panda is actually a male panda!! Don't people recognize it's Jing Jing, that cute panda mascot from 2008 Beijing Olympics?

    Who knows, maybe I blog like a gal. Well....

    You are a MC fan too? Yay! Gimme 5! : )

    November 20, 2009 at 3:33 PM
  57. ladyviral said...

    Oh yes I have! I was always like a little bit late! Today I am finally on the nick of time hahahahaha! *evil laughter*

    Twitter? Nope :/ Somehow I am not into Twitting :P.

    Hahah foong... well, revealed is one thing :P Having it on other people's blog FC is another thing haha!

    Also that isn't a really good picture of me mar. But honestly, I usually prefer a low profile of how I look like haha. I revealed cause so many people demanded. I am nice like that mar ;P. But who knows maybe I will remove those picture one day? o_o;

    November 20, 2009 at 3:35 PM
  58. ladyviral said...

    Besides! I am SHY >____<

    November 20, 2009 at 3:36 PM
  59. foongpc said...

    ladyviral, so do you want me to remove your photo and replace with your avatar? It's not a problem : )

    November 20, 2009 at 3:37 PM
  60. HappySurfer said...

    I believe happiness is over-hyped. Like others, happiness is neutral. You can feel happy about being happy or you can feel otherwise. Unfortunately, people normally associate happiness with material things or when something is acquired when there are lots of other stuff that can give us the satisfaction and peace of mind.

    November 20, 2009 at 3:38 PM
  61. ladyviral said...

    If possible ^_^. I like my avatar better than my own picture >___>

    Thank you for letting me change it :D. I am such problematic haha >__<.

    November 20, 2009 at 3:40 PM
  62. kyh said...

    that got me into thinking... no wonder u were so brave to wander alone in the soul-less jungle routes of Guilin! while i was reading that, i thought to myself, this *girl* was so adventurously brave! :p

    And oh, unless there's a tinge of bimbo-look-at-me-i'm-cute in your blog, then no, there's ntg wrong in ur blogging style.

    I didn't even know the names of the beijing olympics mascots! O.O

    November 20, 2009 at 3:43 PM
  63. foongpc said...

    happysurfer, yes agree with you on that! Happiness should not be associated with material stuffs!

    November 20, 2009 at 3:46 PM
  64. foongpc said...

    ladyviral, done. Haha! I already have your avatar in my computer so I could change it fast! : )

    November 20, 2009 at 3:47 PM
  65. foongpc said...

    kyh, so now you know I am not a girl, am I still not brave wandering in that forest alone? Haha! : )

    November 20, 2009 at 3:49 PM
  66. ladyviral said...
    This comment has been removed by the author.
    November 20, 2009 at 3:49 PM
  67. ladyviral said...

    Yay! changed.. see that picture looks so outstanding! So red... so framey! And my name is clearer too hahaha! Whereas "my" picture was so dark and dull :P.

    Thanks alot foong haha~

    And I just realized I am spamming your post today! Ha! Well, I am free today! So I am here spamming! Hope I am not annoying you already that you keep seeing "ladyviral", "ladyviral" :P

    November 20, 2009 at 3:49 PM
  68. Bananaz said...

    Happiness is "Nowhere" if you are searching from the outside just like the "Acres of Diamonds" story. It's all the time "NOW-HERE" from within you.ക

    November 20, 2009 at 3:50 PM
  69. foongpc said...

    ladyviral, I love people who spam my blog! Haha! I mean, spam in a nice way lah. Not spam me with products promotions and ads!! I will delete those comments! Otherwise, I never ever delete any of the comments here.

    As I said, it's not a problem, so don't worry. But I still prefer your photo. I don't mean that your avatar is not nice, just that a photo is always better than any avatars.

    Then again, I talk only. Cos if anyone dares to put my photo up there on their blog, I will surely kill them!! LOL!

    November 20, 2009 at 3:54 PM
  70. foongpc said...

    bananaz, ooh! Learning some words of wisdom from a banana! Haha! Just kidding here, thanks for your comments! Have a nice weekend! : )

    November 20, 2009 at 3:56 PM
  71. Shingo T said...

    Nice and very thought-provoking entry, bro!

    The idea of having more cash is to allow life to have more options. At least you can sack the boss without guilt anytime when you are rich. =p

    It's important to have goals in our life. Only can there be meaning and a direction.

    November 20, 2009 at 4:05 PM
  72. ladyviral said...

    You are lucky I don't kill you then! I am not violent! Jing Jing Panda foong so violent!!!! EEEEEE! :P

    Besides, why do you have my avatar in your comp?! And my picture too?! How many pictures have you saved up in your comp?! GASPS! STALKER! :P.

    Well, I prefer you try to avoid to use my picture hahaha. You can use the beef I have in my recent post! That beef looks good! hahahaha!

    November 20, 2009 at 4:10 PM
  73. ladyviral said...

    Oh and if you want! I can make more of my avatars and email them to you! hahahaha! :P.

    November 20, 2009 at 4:13 PM
  74. bluedreamer27 said...

    hi foong... wow you're such an amazing blogger, you have reached 70+ comments within a few hours... amazing

    November 20, 2009 at 5:22 PM
  75. kyh said...

    I'm here to spam your blog since you asked for it! :P

    November 20, 2009 at 7:03 PM
  76. molly said...

    I am a happy person and I feel sad easily too. Human ma..

    November 20, 2009 at 10:14 PM
  77. HappySurfer said...

    Bananaz, or more appropriately, happiness is inside of us all the while. We just have to search within ourselves instead of looking elsewhere. If only we would realize it and develop the ground we are standing on before charging off in search of greener pastures.

    November 20, 2009 at 11:37 PM
  78. vialentino said...

    i tend to forget sad things very fast one....maybe me happy go lucky kind of person...and cheerful guy...

    November 21, 2009 at 12:07 AM
  79. Bravebear said...

    Good post! I give it a thumbs up :p

    I have planned to write a post similar to this but seems like I would have to postpone.

    2 important aspects here. The freedom to choose how we wanna feel and that happiness has always been within us. cheese!

    November 21, 2009 at 1:18 AM
  80. kenwooi said...

    nice writeup..
    i choose to be happy! =D

    kenwooi.com

    November 21, 2009 at 1:56 AM
  81. Tekkaus said...

    I agree with you bro. happy is a state of mind. :)

    November 21, 2009 at 5:43 AM
  82. Tekkaus said...

    For me, happiness is being able to see my family happy and healthy. :) I wanna have kids, watch them grow up and get married etc. You know. :D

    November 21, 2009 at 5:44 AM
  83. Tekkaus said...

    I'm happy right now. Are you bro? :p

    Anyway have a great weekend. :D

    November 21, 2009 at 5:44 AM
  84. fufu said...

    yeah lucky i dont need to buy happiness... i am happpy everyday =p hur hur so i could save the money...and go travel around lol

    November 21, 2009 at 8:02 AM
  85. J2Kfm said...

    its a simple concept really.
    why frown when you can smile, and instantly feel the gratification deep inside you?
    whatever comes, take it lightly. life's full of challenges. don't compare with others.

    November 21, 2009 at 4:16 PM
  86. The Envoy said...

    Whenever you get something significant, something else is taken away. - Principle of Equivalent Exchange.

    November 21, 2009 at 8:40 PM
  87. wenn said...

    we only live once so just be happy no matter what..

    November 21, 2009 at 9:45 PM
  88. Monica said...

    Hey Foong! oh I m a happy-go-lucky person who is in a good mood most of the time..hohoho :-D

    November 21, 2009 at 11:23 PM
  89. Monica said...

    being happy is something that everybody strives for, but being happy doesn't always come easy...

    enjoy yr weekend Foong! :)

    November 21, 2009 at 11:24 PM
  90. goingkookies said...

    it's true that we can choose to be happy but it's not easy...

    and sometimes... when ure just having a bad day or down in d dumps, it's hard to sum up the happiness.. or choose to be happy

    November 22, 2009 at 12:21 AM
  91. Josette said...

    Great article. Yup, having one million bucks or achieving that slender figure or getting married doesn't guarantee happiness.

    One may have one million dollars or ringgit or pounds or Euros, but they could be having problems elsewhere. One may be thin but so what? Ah, there are countless other examples!

    I don't think that happiness is a destination either. To me, I believe that the journey itself contains happiness. The journey is happiness. The destination is just something extra, a bonus.

    Nowadays, people like to complain. Including me. But sometimes when we look back and think back of our problems, they aren't so bad at all. We learn from past mistakes and those mistakes shape us into who we are today.

    Things happen for a reason, that's something I feel strongly about too. :)

    November 22, 2009 at 12:15 PM
  92. eiling lim said...

    I always believe if you choose to be happy, no one will be able to make you sad.

    November 23, 2009 at 10:46 AM
  93. iamthewitch said...

    Kekeke.. He got me new extended lenses for LX3!! Didn't know they exist until recently. :P Check my blog soon to see if there's any difference. Haha..

    November 23, 2009 at 10:56 AM
  94. levian said...

    "i am happy not based on material or where i stand or what i achieve. i am happy because that is what i am feeling now." at least that is what happiness is for me. :)

    November 23, 2009 at 1:30 PM
  95. haiseong

    leave this comment from Celebrity Fitness while waiting for witch, let's go for dinner together soon!

    November 23, 2009 at 9:26 PM
  96. Ayie said...

    I have so much reasons to be happy now =)

    Stay happY!

    by the way have you watched Pursuit of Happiness? You might like it.

    November 24, 2009 at 9:27 AM
  97. foongpc said...

    shingo T, thanks! It's true that having goals will give our lives more meaning and direction. How about if I make being happy my goal in life? : )

    December 13, 2009 at 11:23 AM
  98. foongpc said...

    ladyviral, wah! You sound violent! Haha! Anyway, I've resolved this weeks ago. Haha, this is very late reply to your comments here : )

    December 13, 2009 at 11:24 AM
  99. foongpc said...

    bluedreamer27, thanks for the compliment but I think you are an amazing blogger yourself! So many blogs under you - I certainly can't beat that! : )

    December 13, 2009 at 11:25 AM
  100. foongpc said...

    kyh, haha! You are welcome anytime! : )

    December 13, 2009 at 11:25 AM
  101. foongpc said...

    molly, yeah, we have time to be happy and time to be sad - just try to limit the sad times : )

    December 13, 2009 at 11:26 AM
  102. foongpc said...

    happysurfer, you are absolutely right! : )

    December 13, 2009 at 11:27 AM
  103. foongpc said...

    vialentino, it's good to be happy go lucky person - life is much more fun! Glad you are that type of person! : )

    December 13, 2009 at 11:28 AM
  104. foongpc said...

    bravebear, thanks! Oh do write a post about this topic! Would love to read about it : )

    December 13, 2009 at 11:29 AM
  105. foongpc said...

    kenwooi, yes CHOOSE to be happy! It's a wise choice! : )

    December 13, 2009 at 11:29 AM
  106. foongpc said...

    tekkaus, yes happiness is a state of the mind so we can choose to be happy : )

    December 13, 2009 at 11:30 AM
  107. foongpc said...

    fufu, I'm sure you are so happy traveling all over the world! : )

    December 13, 2009 at 11:31 AM
  108. foongpc said...

    J2Kfm, you are right there! Life is full of challenges. Be happy while facing those challenges yes? :)

    December 13, 2009 at 11:32 AM
  109. foongpc said...

    the envoy, that's deep. Let me think about that. Thanks for dropping by! : )

    December 13, 2009 at 11:33 AM
  110. foongpc said...

    wenn, yes just be happy no matter what : )

    December 13, 2009 at 11:33 AM
  111. foongpc said...

    monica, you are a happy go lucky person? Oh, I like to be surrounded by people like you!! Haha.

    December 13, 2009 at 11:34 AM
  112. foongpc said...

    goingkookies, it's not easy, I agree but it's not impossible because it's all about choice : )

    December 13, 2009 at 11:35 AM
  113. foongpc said...

    josette, agree that things always happen for a reason. So accept it and go with the flow! Why resist right? Just be happy always! : )

    December 13, 2009 at 11:36 AM
  114. foongpc said...

    eiling lim, you are right there! No one can make you sad if you already choose to be happy! Because happiness is your own choice and is not dependent on other people! Well said : )

    December 13, 2009 at 11:38 AM
  115. foongpc said...

    iamthewitch, will check your blog for the difference! : )

    December 13, 2009 at 11:38 AM
  116. foongpc said...

    levian, yes feel happiness now! : )

    December 13, 2009 at 11:39 AM
  117. foongpc said...

    haiseong, we just did! Haha! OK, my reply here a bit late - like should have replied to this 2 weeks ago! : )

    December 13, 2009 at 11:40 AM
  118. foongpc said...

    ayie, have not watched Pursuit Of Happiness? It's good? OK, will look out for it : )

    December 13, 2009 at 11:40 AM
  119. Ayie said...

    It's good and very touching...so inspirational.

    December 15, 2009 at 10:32 AM